Who did what?
Most sentences tell us who did something and what they did it to. Two important parts help us understand this:
- The subject does the action.
- The object receives the action.
The dog chased the ball.
- Subject: the dog (who chased?)
- Verb: chased (what happened?)
- Object: the ball (what was chased?)
In English, word order matters. The usual pattern is subject → verb → object. Switch them and the meaning changes completely: The ball chased the dog!
Finding the subject
To find the subject, find the verb first, then ask who or what is doing it.
- My sister plays the violin. Who plays? → My sister
- The cookies smell delicious. What smells? → The cookies
- After lunch, the whole class went outside. Who went? → the whole class
The subject is usually at the start of the sentence, but not always. In questions it can move: Where did you put my shoes?
Every complete sentence needs a subject. In commands, the subject you is hidden: (You) Close the door.
Finding the object
To find the object, ask whom or what after the verb.
- Ella painted a picture. Painted what? → a picture
- The coach called the players. Called whom? → the players
Not every sentence has an object. The baby slept. Slept what? Nothing. That’s fine. Some verbs don’t need an object.
Direct and indirect objects
Direct object
A direct object receives the action directly.
Sam kicked the ball.
I wrote a letter.
Indirect object
An indirect object tells to whom or for whom the action is done. It comes between the verb and the direct object.
I wrote Grandma a letter.
- Direct object: a letter (what did I write?)
- Indirect object: Grandma (to whom?)
You can usually rewrite the sentence with to or for:
I wrote a letter to Grandma.
Dad baked us a cake. → Dad baked a cake for us.
Subject and object pronouns
Pronouns change form depending on whether they are subjects or objects.
| Subject pronoun | Object pronoun |
|---|---|
| I | me |
| you | you |
| he | him |
| she | her |
| it | it |
| we | us |
| they | them |
| who | whom |
- She called me. (She = subject, me = object)
- We saw them at the park.
- They invited us to the party.
A subject pronoun goes before the verb. An object pronoun comes after the verb or after a preposition like to, with, for or between.
The "and" trap
Mistakes often happen when there are two people.
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✗ Me and Jake went to the store.
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✓ Jake and I went to the store.
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✗ Mom drove Jake and I.
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✓ Mom drove Jake and me.
Trick: Cover up the other person. You’d say I went (not me went), and Mom drove me (not Mom drove I). Also, it’s polite to put the other person first.
Who and whom
Who is a subject. Whom is an object.
- Who called you? (He called you → subject)
- To whom did you give it? (You gave it to him → object)
Trick: If you could answer with he, use who. If you could answer with him, use whom. Both end in m!
Common mistakes
- ✗ Her and me are best friends. → ✓ She and I are best friends.
- ✗ Between you and I → ✓ Between you and me
- ✗ Us kids love recess. → ✓ We kids love recess.
- Confusing the subject when a phrase comes between: The box of crayons is on the shelf. The subject is box, not crayons.
Try it yourself
Find the subject and object in each sentence:
- The cat caught a mouse.
- My friends visited me.
- Grandpa told us a story. (Find both objects.)
Then choose the right pronoun: (She / Her) and (I / me) built a fort.
Answers: cat / mouse; friends / me; Grandpa / story (direct), us (indirect). She and I.
Quick recap
- The subject does the action; the object receives it.
- English usually follows subject → verb → object.
- A direct object answers what or whom; an indirect object answers to whom or for whom.
- Use I, he, she, we and they as subjects; use me, him, her, us and them as objects.